Divorce is usually caused by one of the '3 i's,' therapists say. Here's what they are, and how they destroy a marriage.

Bill and Melinda Gates announced their divorce on May 3 after the pair mutually tweeted they were ending their 27-year relationship.

Divorce is usually caused by one of the '3 i's,' therapists say. Here's what they are, and how they destroy a marriage. Ccce6c0d706f9c072a11191e97be31c3

Divorce is usually caused by one of the '3 i's,' therapists say. Here's what they are, and how they destroy a marriage. Ccce6c0d706f9c072a11191e97be31c3

Melinda Gates' petition for divorce called their marriage "irretrievably broken."

Therapist Tess Brigham told Insider over the course of such a long marriage, tension can build up in one of three main relationship categories: incompatibility, infidelity, and irreconcilable differences, also called the three I's.

Here's how the three I's can impact a couple over the course of their marriage, according to therapists and attorneys.
Incompatibility in living, spending, and romantic habits can build resentment over time

Brigham said some of the most common incompatibilities that lead to divorce are politics and religion.

Marilyn Chinitz, Tom Cruise's divorce attorney, disagrees.

"For most people, money is the number one reason why people get divorced," Chinitz told Insider.

While having different opinions isn't necessarily a deal-breaker, the inability to compromise and talk about those differences is a huge problem, according to Brigham.

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Divorce is usually caused by one of the '3 i's,' therapists say. Here's what they are, and how they destroy a marriage.

Divorce is usually caused by one of the '3 i's,' therapists say. Here's what they are, and how they destroy a marriage.

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