Before you get engaged, ask your partner these tough questions

Planning a wedding can feel all-encompassing, and in this age of Instagram, the pressures seem higher than ever to create a picture-perfect day. But getting married isn't the same thing as being married. If therapists like me had our way, there would be far more preparation and discussion around the latter than the former.

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It's not that people are unaware of the issues that add stress to their relationships – perhaps they've even fought about them already. But the optimism and momentum of an engagement often nudge couples to believe that challenges will work out on their own. It may seem that married life will somehow automatically make your partner better with money, more likely to clean up after themselves, or less addicted to their phone.

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Before you get engaged, ask your partner these tough questions

Before you get engaged, ask your partner these tough questions

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